Showing posts with label OrinCarver. Show all posts
Showing posts with label OrinCarver. Show all posts

Feb 24, 2023

 Carver History from Myrtle Violet Carver Groves

A while back a cousin came to me with photos of our great-grandparents and most of their children. She got these from her great-grandmother, Myrtle Violet Carver Groves. This is the family of Cyrus Hoyt Carver and his wife, Mary J Allen.

She took photos of old scrapbook pictures with her phone. I edited to make them clearer. I've posted them on Facebook and Ancestry but haven't shared them here yet.

Carly also transcribed Myrtle's family history notes, to which I added a few comments based on updated info. We've kept the notes as is, except for those comments. I'm so grateful people in previous generations did research and wrote down their notes. I've been sitting on this for a while because I'm unclear about the best way to share it. But the best way is probably any way that works. So, here is the transcript of her notes. This will take you to Carley's website. This used to be a PDF on my Google Docs; something happened. I'll work to fix that. Meanwhile, on Carley's site look for the documents titled "transcript-history-myrtle-violet-carver-groves ..." There are two documents. One contains missing pages from the original. Each has some Carver info. 

If this doesn't work well, please contact me at carverhistorical@outlook.com, and we'll figure something else out.

A few highlights
  • The family moved from Wisconsin to homestead in Nebraska in 1878.
  • Cyrus made his own tools and sewed, by hand, his own shirts made from brown denim and lined with red flannel which he wore the year round.
  • The family attended singing school in the evening for entertainment.
  • Oliver was married to Loren's stepdaughter.
  • Orin may have moved to Gresham, Oregon.
  • Barton married Happy Jo Sherman, whose full first name was Happiloni.
  • Donley never married. 

And here are the photos.

Cyrus Hoyt Carver and Grandchildren, 1906

Mary Allen Carver and (perhaps) daughter Roxy (or Nettie), year unknown
 
Dorr Carver and Mary Allen Carver, year unknown

Orin Carver, year unknown

Loren Carver and Sylvia Myers, before Oct 1900

Orin and Oliver Carver, year unknown



Barton and Happy Sherman Carver 1940

Donley Carver, about 1945















Apr 22, 2020

The Next Grandpa Back - Video

Related Link: https://carverhistorical.blogspot.com/2020/04/the-next-grandpa-back.html
A video about getting to know Cyrus Hoyt Carver using last century's best social media platform.


Apr 4, 2020

The Next Grandpa Back - Written Word

Related Link: The Next Grandpa Back - Video

In times of uncertainty I like to look back in history to identify things that remain constant from generation to generation. It helps me feel grounded. And it occurred to me the other day that social media is one of those constants.

Think about it. Through the ages people have tried to connect -- with writing on cave walls, writing on bathroom walls, the town crier, the town gossip, newspaper ads, bulletin boards, Facebook, and Twitter.

My favorite social media platform of last century is the community news section of small town newspapers. Here's an example from the Creighton News, July 4, 1912. It's a small Nebraska paper.

  • Adolph Raff was in town Sunday and dropped in to say hello to the news. 
  • Cool underwear for hot weather at the Simon Clothing Company.
  • Mrs. Alice Norton has a small chicken that has four legs and four feet.
  • Instant Postum requires no boiling. 25 and 50 cent packages available.

These little tidbits tumble down the columns, paragraph after paragraph, no headings, filling most of page 3. They remind me of my Facebook news feed, without the photos or memes. And yet, each of these paragraphs provides a small snapshot in time that can help us understand the people who lived then.

These pages helped me get acquainted with my great grandfather. Dad told me stories about his father, but we didn’t know much about the next grandpa back. All Dad could remember was that he was really old, and he had a gruff voice. 

I can see him now, Cyrus Carver, standing in the kitchen of his son Bart’s house. He's been visiting, but it's time to go home. His lunch is packed. He gets his coat and looks outside. Oh no! Bart is talking to the newspaper man. That man is a busybody. He spends all his time gathering neighborhood gossip and printing it!

Bart waves. "Pops, come talk with us!" With a sigh, Cyrus steps outside.

"I don't have time for no stories. I have pressing work in the shop." He keeps his head down and tries to walk past them, but Bart takes his arm.

"Pops! People want to hear about your life. You set a good example. Talk to the man. Be neighborly!"

Well, if you put it that way. He sets his things on the porch and talks about the old days on the homestead, when the boys were young and his wife was alive. He talks about Saturday night dances at his place. They had some good times. Somebody would play the fiddle. They would make popcorn, play cards, tell stories.

The nearest doctor was miles away, and many a night some neighbor would knock on the door and ask for his wife. "Grandma Carver, my mother is sick. Please come help!" Sometimes she was able to save a life. Sometimes not. Early on, Cyrus set up a cemetery on a hill at the corner of his property. He built the caskets. How many? He wasn't sure.

The boys are all grown now, with children and grandchildren. None of them have much money, and if he doesn't work, they will have to feed him. He isn't having any of that, so he grows onions to sell. He takes orders for blacksmith and carpentry work. And now he really needs to get back. As he explains to the newspaper man, "I'm a self-sustainer. I will work till the day I die."

Cyrus Hoyt Carver was born in St. Lawrence County, New York in 1810. Around 1840 he married a local girl, Mary Allen, and they moved to Wisconsin, where they raised eight children. 

In 1864, despite his age, he was drafted into the civil war at Prairie du Chin, 3rd Dist Wisconson. After a few weeks he was sent home, due to epilepsy.

In 1877 they moved to Nebraska to take up a homestead. 

In October, 1879 the Neligh Republican reports that he built a two-story stone house, 16x26, built of fine, grey limestone.

According to a 1965 article in the Creighton News, he nearly lost his life in 1880 in a well but was saved by a neighbor. This deserves further study and a separate post.

Here he is in 1906 with some grandchildren and their dog, Shep.

Cyrus Hoyt Carver, (1810-1914) with grandchildren Ethyl, Eldon, Gilbert, Chester, and dog, Shep. About 1906. Age 96. Photo courtesy Carly Smith.

The 1910 Country Correspondence section of the Creighton News says that Cyrus had a stroke, but he bounced back.

Creighton News, Page 5 -January 27, 1910

Here he is in 1911, celebrating his 101st birthday. He used to grow tobacco, and he is spry.
Nebraska Liberal, Page 1 - August 11, 1911

In 1912, age 102, he's walking 14 miles against the strongest winds of the season to visit Bart. Can that really be true? Or is this some of that fake news? At any rate, he is still spry. I like that word. Spry.
Nebraska Liberal, Page 4 - October 11, 1912

And finally, here's his obituary in 1914. He lived to be 103 years, 10 months, and 26 days old, and he died in his workshop.
Creighton News, Page 1 - June 4, 1914
Wife's name Mary Jennette Allen. Boys' names: Dorr, Orin (Nickname Shib), Loren (nickname Nin), Donley, Oliver (nickname Oddie), Barton, Orland (nickname Professor). Daughter who died age 11, name unknown. 

What was Cyrus Carver's legacy? He was a husband, father, blacksmith, homesteader. He hosted dances and built caskets. He was a self-sustainer. He was spry. And if we could travel back in time and ask him what one thing he wanted to be remembered for, I think he would say, "I was a good neighbor."

If it weren't for last century's social media, I would know a lot less about Great Grandpa. I'm glad he took the time to tell the papers a little bit about his life. I want to be a self-sustainer. I'd really like to be spry. And we all want to be good neighbors. Don't we?